The Breast, I mean BEST Solution

We are all aware that the female form does gain far too much attention, especially breasts.

I want to discuss implants.
Why do people want them? Have you ever wanted them?
I have. only when I felt like listening to the lies of Satan telling me I'm not good enough as I am. It is not a solution.

Before I was married, I thought my boyfriend (now hubby) was more interested in large bosoms which never made it easy on me to accept my own (at first). I remember all the boys mocking me for being quite small in bust. It was pretty tormenting, but I don't think they realized it hurt as much as it did. I used to even feel a connection to a character from a movie. The 1960s movie Gidget with Sandra Dee had a scene where she was doing exercises to enhance her bust in order to look more like a babe instead of a child to draw attention from her crush when she was surfing. Being highly teased and sensitive with that area of my body at 14 years old, I used to attempt the same exercises. My mom told me back in the 60s when she was a teen, she too used to used to do that. It of course was a bunch of bologna! When I was 19 I thought that maybe being hot meant having larger breasts. Therefore I went out and purchased $65 pills that would naturally enhance them. Thing is they did work for a time; slightly, but not unless I continued to buy these pills, which I hadn't the money for.

Here's why my husband has told me about large breasts and the fascination men have with them.  He said that because he grew up in society that made a huge deal about them all the time, he thought that is what he should have gone for too, and yes it did turn him on, but normal and smaller busts did too.  Men too listen to the lies of society around them.  I think men really do prefer reality over a fantasy. If they don't, give them time to wake up to the truth.

A year ago I noticed that in intros for 1980s films, or just in scenes of movies, many of the "hot girls" mentioned had natural sized bosoms of all sizes. This really made me feel happy in that aspect. Sure it was still a lust issue for men, but at least they were real. At least it was that they just wanted a girl who had them at all, regardless of size. What changed?

I looked up some history about implants[a]. A hundred years ago, they attempted to create implants but continually failed. They would either use wax or fat injections. The improvements in science in the sixties changed the wax substance a little, but still were not truly working.  They used more spongy materials in the 50s, and more wax based ones in the 60s. We can blame Frank Gerow and Thomas Cronin for creating the first successful implant for breasts in 1962, when the first woman ever received a pair of her own to live life in. Unfortunately the material used was polyurethane foam, which would dissolve in the body and caused breast cancer. Silicone was such a problem that in 1988, they removed it from the market and replaced it with saline.  Once the 1990s came around, the surgeries boomed!

The 1990s. What a freaky decade, in my opinion. It is when big breasts pretty much changed the world. It also is responsible for the gigantic pornography industry that has boomed even more since the internet came at large. The connections between the two are a problem in itself. This sadly is part of what has created the fact that today's young male teens and up through people in their early 40s probably are the largest statistics for people who choose fake over real. When you start so early on in life by looking at photos of women who have implants, and when society makes a huge deal (the media of course being the worst) about the size, it becomes this fad for men to want them as badly as they want the newest (or classiest) type of car. They just feel they need them.

Are there men who aren't into big breasts? Probably quite a few, but maybe not the majority, but this is what discourages women so very much! The more that men make it seem like breasts matter too highly, the more women feel so down about themselves, that they feel they need to get implants in order to get attention from their man, especially if they know that is what his eyes lust over most.  They feel so hurt. They feel so rejected. They don't feel comfortable in their own skin.



Let me tell you the truth though women. If you have small breasts or large breasts, it doesn't matter at all to a guy. Most men are not going to want to love you or marry you because of the size of your bosoms. If they fall in love with you, they go for the package deal no matter how large or small you are anywhere. If they make you feel lousy about yourself, then they need to get out of their fantasy worlds and start seeing the incredible beauty in front of them. They need to stop drooling and lusting over other people.  If they love you, it is going to be for you - with all your flaws. Most men won't be able to explain their fascination with size, but at the same time in reality, they really don't care about size. They actually usually would prefer to have a woman with real natural breasts no matter what size they are over some fantasy fascination lustful object - and they will get very turned on by you. All of your body no matter how "flawed" you feel it is. They hope that you will want to accept them in the same way, rather than telling them you want them to look like the modern poster boy Johnny Bravo. They have self image issues too. They are not going to be happy if you prefer to check out a guy who seems buff if they aren't. It will make them feel lowly about themselves just as you will feel lowly about yourself for when you see them go wild for someone else.

Let's go to some passages being shared about the intimacy between a husband and wife!
"I am a wall, and my breasts are like towers. Thus I have become in his eyes like one bringing contentment." -Song of Solomon 8:10 

My overall message here is that if you want to care about other people at all, which you should, rather than be selfish, start embracing who you are and what you have (but please don't flaunt them, that is also insensitive to others). For women who feel so hurt by their boyfriends or husbands who lust over others: tell them rather than making it seem like you don't really care. There is no way you don't care. You deserve better than that.  Be real. Stay real. Don't make a plunge to get implants. For women who  like the attention they get because they have bigger busts, don't show them off. Think about who's relationship you might be hurting by allowing people to objectify your breasts. I knew girls who would bounce around on purpose in middle school because they had them before everyone else and got a lot of eyes from guys that way. Sadly some girls only get worse with flaunting what they have as they get older, as if it is a fun game because they know it is easy to tease guys (because it is).  If you want to have respect, respect others. If you are proud of them, wait for your wedding night to have them glorified alone by your husband.  They'll get the attention they deserve then, by the person they're meant for alone.


"Your two breasts are like two fawns, like twin fawns of a gazelle that browse among the lilies." -Song of Solomon 4:5

For women who are small in bust, don't fear. You will be glorified more than you think when your body will satisfy your husband. For those who have husbands or boyfriends who have lust problems or seem to prefer large bosoms: they would prefer you.  If they pressure you to go bigger, don't listen because they are in a fantasy world where nothing will ever be enough for them. For all you know they'll miss what you had and realize they were idiots. They are listening to the lies of Satan.  They need to work on their lust issues. It won't be easy at all.  For men who seem to have such a huge attraction to big breasts or have a need to search on the internet for larger breasts: think about the person that you care and love. Think about caring more about your spiritual desires before your fleshly desires. In listening to the Holy Spirit over your flesh, you will see true satisfaction. Sames goes for women. Think on God and have faith in Him, for he will make you radiant and much more worthy in every way. We need to stop making idols of our vanity and selfish desires.

I share with you one very beautifully described passage of how sex and pleasure of each other's bodies should be in and through marriage between them alone. the whole springs overflowing is something I've always felt to say that a man should not masturbate - just food for thought when you read this, because those springs should be for your wife to enjoy men:
"Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares? Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers.  May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.  A loving doe, a graceful deer - may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love.  Why be captivated, my son, by an adulteress?  Why embrace the bosom of another man's wife? For a man's ways are in full view of the Lord, and he examines all his paths.  The evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of his sin hold him fast.  He will die for lack of discipline, led astray by his own great folly." - Proverbs 5:16-23


photos from: Marcella Treybig & A Day To Adore